I m am indian girl and today m gone to talk about the mindset of an indian children from very young age.. so I don't know about foreign but in india we all have to think about this ridiculous society before us what they say "wo char log kya khenge" so when a child is born if it's a boy then the first thought of this society is the greedy behaviour that he will be always there for them parents don't have to send me anywhere come on yrrr I mean this is not that time you have to send ur child away from you for career and studies and if it a girl then it's like someone murdered them it's like the first thought is u have to waste money on their upbringing and then fill money in the mouth of their in law's oh comeon yrrr instead of this thing change ur mindset yr . And as the time passes physical appearance of a child become a talk of the society and family height weight complexion hair marks even pimples nose moti hai patli hai eyes choti hai bde hai and bla bla bla 🙄🙄🙄I mean what the heck is this yrrrr why these things matter soo much and in case of a girl even nail size🤨🤨🤨🤨they don't have any other topic like progressive gdp economy rate career etc instead of objectifying children focus on their thoughts their talents their wishes and due to these things every child think that a gud height is much more important and they do everything to increase their height and same with complexion and if a girl is overweight then she is forced to losen up for so called perfect figure and to marry a gud looking handsome guy and what the hell is this so called our hypocrisy of our society and our parents they wanna to see their girl indulging in household activities like cooking mopping bcz these r soo called basic marital things na bcz in our indian society they don't need wife they need a servant for their boy so these boy need not to even raise their hand here and there comeon yr why this biasness always kills just think about after all these scenario how a girl feels she can't be her own master they want quality of life and just be realistic a girl is much prettier without that 4kg atta and a guy is handsome without that cookies and wool balls if a child is born with dark complexion then their parents will do all possible things from their childhood itself like besan+milk rub on skin various creams and all other stuffs why these things r so important for a human yrrr why we have to treat us like a object we have a single life and we have to proud on what we have instead of regret what we don't have and I can bet every children born in this indian society have to face these things parents have to teach children that they r best as they r they r perfect in their own way they need not to have a 5ft or 6ft height to look good or a fair complexion u only need to be confident and love urself in the way u areee and pleaseeee don't objectify urself and u need not to be bother about ur Physical appearance we all r perfect bcz we have our life and we have to make it meaningful and make it worth🤘🤘🤘🤘♥️♥️♥️